Making the "right" decision

Hey, Hannah here,

A few days ago I made a really big decision. I was scared out of my mind and I can't believe I actually did it but I did and I have almost no regrets.

In life there are going to be hordes of huge decisions you will have to make. "Some times you make the right ones, sometimes the wrong" but I don't think there is ever a "RIGHT" or "WRONG" decision. Our actions, everything we do, influences the world around us. A choice made can be a good influence on some and a bad on others, for example: the coal industry. Shutting down the coal industry could drastically reduce the amount of pollutants thereby decreasing global warming and saving our children's children's children's lives but there are lots of poor, uneducated families whose single source of income is coal mining, they can't just pack up and look for another job, its their way of life. Now this is a major issue but it's pretty much like that.

Everyday we make huge choices without realising it and it's okay. It's okay to make mistakes to make the wrong decision because there wont ever be a "right" one. Just decide what you truly believe you don't always have to be right as long as you stay true to what you believe.

If you ever feel like you made the wrong choice and you are seeing only the bad effects, take a deep breath and look for the good effects. Nothing is every purely good nor is it ever purely bad. It's okay to regret a decision just think, can I fix this? If you can, try. If you cannot just let it go. No use beating yourself up about it. Just let go.

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